우리는 사랑을 모른다

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들어가는말·····4

1부:브라질여인과사랑하는중입니다
1부를시작하며-무엇이이사랑은시작됐을까·····10

1장-우리의처음·····14

2장-마기다의뜻밖의질문·····19

3장-마지막퍼즐이배송중입니다·····22

4장-이별이라는문앞에서서성이다가·····29

5장-어색했던첫만남·····35

6장-변화의바람·····39

7장-하나되는중입니다·····44

8장-결혼을결심한이유·····48

9장-결혼식은하고싶지않아·····55

10장-프러포즈도하고싶지않아·····60

11장-브라질로돌아간아내·····66

12장-우리의보금자리·····73

13장-우리에게찾아온새생명·····78

14장-절망의소용돌이속에서·····85

15장-고난이라는이름의선물·····91

16장-지구별에등장한정하늘·····97

17장-삶과죽음의경계에서·····104

18장-하늘아,너는내삶에축복이란다·····110

19장-우리가족이되어준진돗개타니·····115

20장-우리의이야기는진행중·····121

넘어가는말-산책길에서순례길로·····127

2부:우리는사랑을모른다
2부를시작하며-사랑을다시배워야하는시대·····130

1장-사랑은왜중요한가?·····134

2장-사랑의이해를가로막고있는것들·····142

3장-사랑의단계,그리고내사랑의현위치·····147

4장-우리는누구나자기중심적이다·····162

5장-내안의자기중심성길들이기·····177

6장-이제건강한사랑으로·····188

7장-바로지금·····265

에필로그·····271