MZ 아빠 요즘 육아

MZ 아빠 요즘 육아

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현대 사회의 아버지들이 겪는 육아의 달콤함과 고충을 담은 'MZ 아빠 요즘 육아'

우리는 늘 변화하는 시대 속에서 아버지의 역할이 얼마나 중요한지 잊지 않고 있습니다. 'MZ 아빠 요즘 육아'는 바로 이러한 현대 아버지들의 삶을 진솔하게 담아내고자 합니다. 아이와 함께 자라는 과정 속에서 발견한 작은 행복, 때론 벅찬 도전 그리고 무엇보다 아버지로서 성장하는 모습을 아름답게 담았습니다.

이 책은 단순한 이야기를 넘어 현실적인 조언과 따뜻한 격려를 전할 것이며, MZ 세대의 아빠들이라면 누구나 공감할 수 있는 내용으로 가득 차 있습니다. 이책을 통해 우리는 아버지들에게 좀 더 긍정적이고 적극적인 육아 참여를 이끌어내고, 그 과정에서 느끼는 작지만 소중한 기쁨들을 나누고자 합니다.

① 아빠육아를 하며 경험했던 다양한 에피소드를 아이의 시선에서 재해석해보고, 아이의 마음을 들여다보는 모습을 보여주고자 합니다. 이를 통해 독자로 하여금 ‘나도 아이의 마음을 깊이 이해하고 싶다.’는 생각을 불러일으키고자 합니다.

② 아이와 함께 하는 일상이 아빠의 시선에서는 어떻게 번역될 수 있는지 나타내고자 합니다. 이를 통해 아빠의 시선에서 바라보는 육아도 필요하고 중요함을 알리려 합니다. 하루하루 흘러가는 육아 일상(‘크로노스 - 물리적인 시간’)이 아빠의 시선에 담겼을 때 특별한 의미를 지니는 시간(‘카이로스 - 의미가 부여된 주관적 시간’)이 될 수 있음을 보여주려 합니다.

③ 요즘 아빠들에게 아이의 마음을 더 깊이 알기 위해서 그림책이 좋은 도구가 될 수 있음을 알리고자 합니다. 그림책으로 아이의 마음을 이해함과 동시에 나도 몰랐던 내 마음과 어릴적 추억을 불러일으키고 아빠의 마음도 알아가도록 도와주려 합니다.

④ 부모세대로부터 받았던 사랑의 본질을 한번 더 이해하고, 아이의 마음을 민감하게 바라보는 요즘의 태도를 더해 아이와 어떻게 건강하게 자라갈 수 있는지 알아가보려 합니다.
저자

채현배

저자:채현배
전직특공부대장교출신으로,전역후유치원행정실근무를했던다소특이한이력이있습니다.몬테소리유치원이었는데,이덕분에아이들의심리와마음을조금더세밀하게읽고이해할수가있었습니다.
아이들이태어나며늘비슷하기만한매일의일상을글로담기시작했습니다.그렇게일기를써오며아이들과함께해오다가자연스레그림책을접하게되었습니다.
아이들을위해읽어주던그림책에되려스스로위안을얻을때가있었고,그렇게그림책이좋아져그림책상담심리공부까지하게되었습니다.아이의마음을들여다보고,내마음도들여다보는일을계속해오고있습니다.
아빠도육아의보조자가아니라,주요참여자가될수있으며아빠육아를통해서아이도아빠도함께성장할수있음을글에담아보았습니다.

목차

추천사···4
프롤로그···14

제1장아이마음번역하기

1.실수(응가가나와버렸어)·································································24
2.벚꽃을담다(아이는과잉애착일까?)·····················································30
3.건들지마(여러욕구들)··································································37
4.아이마음번역하기·······································································43
5.누구나실수는어렵다(우당탕탕성장하는아들그리고아빠)··············------------····49
6.여러질문(하임이가마주하는세상)·······················································56

제2장알게된아빠마음

1.어깨동무(엄마가하루종일약속이있던날)···································--··········66
2.이럴땐어떻게해야하지?··················································---·········72
3.늦여름에내린비가알려준것··············································------·······77
4.몰입의기쁨···············································································83
5.세현이이야기·············································································89

제3장알게된육아팁들

1.기다려주는일(아이가요구할때와기다림을알려주어야할때)················----------·96
2.옐로카드,레드카드(아빠가주는경고)·····································----········102
3.핑크카드(하성이가만나는여러감정)·················································107
4.어쩌다은행장이된아빠(젤리를끊어야할때)····························--------····114
5.누나몸,내몸(너도정말특별해!)·····················································119
6.더불어사는법··········································································124

제4장그림책으로알게된마음

1.아빠와그림책(그림책《작은눈덩이의꿈》)··········································132
2.다시의미가되는일(그림책《너를보면》)························-·················138
3.매주만드는아빠와의추억(그림책《두발을담그고》)···············--------········142
4.완벽주의아이이해하기(그림책《절대로실수하지않는아이》)····-------········147
5.엄마의쪽지(그림책《엄마의선물》)·····················································152
6.불안과불안한너(그림책《불안》)····················································157
7.재료가될것들(그림책《프레드릭》)··················································162
8.기여하는삶(그림책《지하정원》)························································166
9.“언니!것좀가꼬와”(그림책《행복한청소부》)························-----···········169
10.엄마의시선(그림책《너를보면》)·····················································173

제5장자라는아빠마음(나를이룬것들기억하기)

1.더큰존재안에서의나································································178
2.시필하시겠어요?··········································································182
3.갚는마음(나를이룬만남1)······························································186
4.무거운택배··················································································190
5.약방할매(나를이룬만남2)·······························································193
6.아빠(나를이룬만남3)·······································································199

제6장아빠보다더큰마음(나중에들려줄이야기)

1.한나·······························································································206
2.붙잡힌여인··················································································211
3.백부장(필요한사람vs소중한하인)······················································214
4.Team보아스···············································································219

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