내성적인 집순이 엄마의 느린 육아

내성적인 집순이 엄마의 느린 육아

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**"느린 육아의 힘: 천천히, 꾸준히, 그리고 유연하게"**

한 아이를 떠나보낸 깊은 슬픔과 그로 인한 깨달음에서 시작된 특별한 육아 여정. 이 책은 세상의 속도와 기준에 얽매이지 않고 아이와 엄마가 함께 성장하는 '느린 육아'의 실천기를 담았습니다.

저자는 아이와의 소중한 시간을 돌아보며, 조급함을 내려놓고 아이의 눈빛을 따라가며 천천히, 그러나 꾸준히 걸어온 이야기를 진솔하게 풀어냅니다. 아이와 매일 함께 책을 읽으며 자연스럽게 학습과 독서의 즐거움을 키워간 과정, 그리고 단순하지만 지속 가능한 자기주도 학습과 영어 습관을 쌓아간 경험이 고스란히 녹아 있습니다.

육아는 마라톤과도 같습니다. 단거리처럼 모든 에너지를 한꺼번에 쏟기보다는 올바른 방향을 설정하고 천천히 걸음을 옮기는 것이 중요합니다. 이 책은 "약한 불에도 물은 결국 끓는다"는 진리를 바탕으로, 작은 행동을 차곡차곡 쌓아가는 느린 육아의 가치와 힘을 이야기합니다.

누군가의 육아서가 정답이 될 수는 없습니다. 하지만 이 책은 한 엄마가 겪은 시행착오와 성장, 그리고 그 안에서 얻은 배움이 누군가의 불안한 마음에 작은 위로와 울림이 되기를 바라고 있습니다.

모두가 빠른 성공을 외칠 때, 느리지만 꾸준히, 그리고 유연하게 아이와 함께 걷고자 하는 이들에게 따뜻한 길잡이가 되어줄 것입니다.

**"조급해하지 말고, 불안에 휘둘리지 말고, 조금씩 나아가세요. 그게 가장 빠른 길일지도 몰라요."**
아이와 엄마 모두를 위한 진심 어린 응원의 메시지가 담긴 이 책은 느린 육아를 지향하는 모든 이들에게 값진 동행이 될 것입니다.
저자

이민경

열네살열두살아들과아홉살딸을키우고있다
아픈아이와함께강제적집순이로살아가며힘든시간을보냈지만결국이별하계되었다.지금은나의의지에의한자유로운집순이로여유있는마음과책이있는환경에서나의성향과아이의눈빛을따라느린육아를하고있다.
17년이라는시간동안아이에게책을읽어주며종래에는나도읽는사람이되었다.
새벽고요한시간에매일책을읽고생각을기록하며감사일기를6년째쓰고있다.
조금씩꾸준히해온책읽기로세아이모두자발적으로즐기며읽는아이로성장했다.
엄마도아이도독서에진심이다.

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제1장
내성적인내가집순이가되었다
1.엄마가처음이라서미안해···························································14
2.나는내성적인사람입니다···························································20
3.강제적집순이에서자발적집순이로··········································26
4.세상을배운다‘직접경험&간접경험’·······································32
5.사교성없는‘아싸’엄마와‘인싸’아이들···································37
6.집순이엄마가꿈꾸는심플라이프··············································44

제2장
아이를느리게키운다는것
1.더해주기보다덜어주기·······························································52
2.개똥철학‘엄마의소신’································································59
3.원없이노는아이들‘자유놀이’·················································66
4.디지털미디어가멀리있는환경·················································71
5.다름을인정하고기다려준다·······················································76
6.완벽한엄마는아닐지라도···························································80
7.멀리보는육아,육아는마라톤···················································86

제3장
아이의삶에촉촉하게스며드는가랑비독서
1.만만하고재미있는책‘관심사’와‘흥미’로································92
2.역세권보다더좋은‘도세권’·······················································99
3.여유있는시간이필요해‘빈둥빈둥멍때리기’·······················104
4.독후활동을꼭해야한다고?······················································109
5.책으로자연스럽게인성,감성까지···········································113
6.책을좋아하는아이로자라는비결‘가랑비독서’··················118
7.시간이지날수록경제적인가성비육아···································123


제4장
엄마의욕심을줄이면공부가수월해진다
1.매일아침을여는‘신문읽기’····················································130
2.조금씩스며드는노출‘가늘고길게가는영어’······················135
3.사교육을줄여야하는이유························································143
4.공부습관을잡아주는‘매일최소공부습관’··························149
5.쉽고간편한포스트잇글쓰기····················································156
6.거실에서놀고,먹고,독서하고,공부한다·······························161
제5장
엄마도느리지만멋지게성장하는중‘느릿느릿걸어도황소걸음’
1.나는우물안개구리였다····························································168
2.매일책읽는엄마가되었다·······················································172
3.고요한새벽,나만의시간에진심입니다··································178
4.‘감사일기’를쓰며긍정을연습한다········································183
5.읽고,쓰고,생각하고,실천하는‘독서노트’····························187
6.현실에안주하고싶은마음vs간절히변화하고싶은마음···192
7.책을읽으면꿈을이룬다····························································197
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