부부 신학(영문판) (The Shadow of the Eternal Marriage)

부부 신학(영문판) (The Shadow of the Eternal Marriage)

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How to Lead a Married Life?
어떻게 결혼생활을 할 것인가?
A Guide for Couples That Builds the Covenant Community and Envisions the Kingdom of God 언약 공동체의 기초, 하나님 나라를 꿈꾸게 하는 부부 지침서
★ This book explores the interactions between husbands and wives within a covenantal framework, addressing the holy affection of marriage, relational attitudes, and practical aspects of married life. The author emphasizes that one's spiritual condition can be revealed through their attitude toward their spouse-a realization sparked by his wife's battle with cancer. Having grown up in a dysfunctional family, this awakening led to profound change in his own marriage. Rooted in theological interpretation and practical application, this book serves as a sequel to A Theology of Dating.
★ It delves into not only the world of marriage and relationships but also counseling cases related to marital conflicts, biblical perspectives on divorce and remarriage, and Christian ethical views on child-rearing. It invites couples to explore the deeper meaning of their union as a community. Marriage, the union of husband and wife, is ultimately a reflection of the great mystery of Christ and the Church. This theme is illustrated through passages such as Genesis 2:24, which is quoted and explained by the apostle Paul in Ephesians 5:31-32. Each chapter includes questions for sharing and application.

★ 언약으로 세워지는 부부, 남편과 아내의 상호작용을 다루는 이 책은 결혼의 거룩한 정서, 부부 관계와 태도에 이르기까지 결혼생활의 실제를 다룬다. 영적 상태를 진단하는 시금석은 배우자를 대하는 태도에 있다는 저자의 선언에 주목하게 하는데, 이는 역기능 가정에서 성장한 저자에게 아내의 암 투병이 찾아오면서 시작된 각성이자 변화였다. 신학적 해석을 기초로 하고 부부 생활 적용에 중심을 둔 『연애 신학』 후속편이다.
★ 결혼생활과 부부의 세계뿐 아니라 부부 갈등의 상담 사례, 이혼 또는 재혼에 대한 성경적 시각, 자녀 양육으로 이어지는 기독교 윤리의 관점을 포함하고 있다. 아내와 남편의 부부 관계를 더 깊이 공동체 의미에 다가가게 한다. 남편과 아내의 결합인 결혼, 그 한 몸 됨의 큰 비밀이 궁극적으로 그리스도와 교회의 연합임을 알기 쉽게 안내하는 이 책의 주제 말씀은 창세기 2장 24절, 그리고 사도 바울이 이 구절을 인용하며 주석하는 에베소서 5장 31-32절이다. 각 챕터마다 나눔과 적용을 위한 질문이 수록되어 있다.
저자

권율

저자:권율
피에타스선교지원사역대표
인생의고난과아픔을소재로설교와글쓰기에힘쓰는저자는,비신자가정에서태어나가정폭력및부모이혼등어려운환경에서복음으로인생이‘개혁’되는체험을했다.역기능가정에서성장했음에도하나님의사랑으로잘회복되어결혼생활도그사랑이흘러넘치기를소망하고있다.성경이말하는부부의모습을갈망하는저자의노력은결국『부부신학』의출간으로이어졌다.
경북대학교영어영문학과(B.A.)와고려신학대학원목회학석사(M.Div.)를마치고,대구경북지역SFC(학생신앙운동)간사를역임하였으며,현재부산세계로병원원목으로재직하면서거제교회기관목사로도섬기고있다.매년선교지몽골과필리핀의신학교를방문하여교수사역을지원하고있으며,평소블로그와페이스북을통해끊임없이소통하고있다.
저서『부부신학』『연애신학』『전능자의손길』외8권이있고,역서『원문을그대로번역한웨스트민스터소교리문답』외4권이있다.
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목차


Foreword5
Prologue11
Chapter1.BecomingaTrueCouple15
AWorkaholicHusband
“YouknowIStillLoveYou,Right?”
LovingGod&LovingSpouse
TheTouchstonetoDiagnoseSpiritualState
ApplywiththeFearofGod
TheyHaveBecome,ButNeedtoBecome
ATrianglewithGodastheApex
●QuestionsforSharingandApplication

Chapter2.ACouple’sLoveCanChange37
DoesaCouple’sLoveNeverChange?
WhatIstheWilltoLoveBetweenaCouple?
BecauseoftheCovenant,NottheLoveoftheCouple
DoesMarriageChangeaMan?
MarriageChangesaWomanToo!
●QuestionsforSharingandApplication

Chapter3.Leave,Unite,andBecomeOne53
ThreeElementsofCovenantMarriage
WhenaManWon’tLeaveHisParents
FilialPietyRequiresaGoodMarriage
WhenaManDoesNotUnitewithHisWife
WhenaCoupleDoesn’tBecomeOneFlesh
ChurchWomenTamedbyAsceticism
God-Given,BeautifulSexualDesire
SexualDesireandLustAreDifferent!
SexualDesireandCovenant
LustIsIdolatry
ExperienceHolyAffection
●QuestionsforSharingandApplication

Chapter4.UpgradingMaritalLove97
HowtoOvercomeChristianBoredom
DefiningtheConceptofOvercomingBoredom
DistinguishingAffectionfromEmotion
HolyAffectionandtheEmotionofLove
LoveonAnotherLevel
●QuestionsforSharingandApplication

Chapter5.ACoupleLovesandDreamsTogether129
ACoupleDreamingoftheKingdomofGod
ACoupleonaMissionArmedwithLove
WhatIsaCouple’sMissionTogether?
PreciousBecauseYouAreNotPermanent
TheMysticalUnionofChristandtheChurch
FirstLoveandLastLove
●QuestionsforSharingandApplication

Chapter6.EnjoyaHappyMarriage165
MaritalSextoRenewtheCovenant
Kissing,aSublimeActofHomage
TheJoyofSatisfyingYourSpouse
ACoupleBearingtheImageofGod
AMutuallySubmissiveCouple
StartingPointforYourChild’sEducation
●QuestionsforSharingandApplication

Chapter7.Real-LifeSituationswithBickering191
FerventinFaithbutOftenFight
FailureEvenWhenFaithIsFervent
AVeryWiseHusband
ManCaveTime
ACoupleNavigatingMenopauseWisely
Men’sLanguagevs.Women’slanguage
NeedforRecognition,aSenseofEmpathy
AbilitytoFightandReconcileWisely
TearsShedwhileLookingintotheFace
AWifePuttingNoHopeinHerHusband
GodAloneIsNotEnough
●QuestionsforSharingandApplication

Chapter8.Divorce,Remarriage,andReality225
ABoyGrowingUpinaDivorcedFamily
TheBizarreWorldofDivorceToday
ABiblicalGroundforDivorce#1:AdulteryofaSpouse
ABiblicalGroundforDivorce#2:RefusalofanUnbelievingSpouse
UnstatedGroundsforDivorce
TheCasesinWhichYouCanRemarry
RealisticProblemsofRemarriage
RemarriageIsNotAlwaysaGoodThing
OneDayWeWillBeAlone
●QuestionsforSharingandApplication
Epilogue259
Bibliography261

출판사 서평

LetUsPutOurHopeIntheLordAlone!
Ihopethateverymarriedcoupleintheworldwillreadthisbookandrestoretheirrelationshipasbeautifullyaswedid.Especiallywives,letusnolongerputourhopeinourhusbands,butonlyintheLord,andwiththatdetermination,youwillfindyourhusbandaslovingasIdid.(MiAeSon,theauthor’swife)

우리의소망을오직주님께두자!
한국교회의모든부부들이이책을읽고우리처럼부부관계를아름답게회복하면좋겠다.특히아내들이여,더이상남편에게소망을두지말고오직주님을바라보자.그런결심을하고나면신기하게도남편이사랑스러워보이게될것이다.(손미애,저자의아내)