부부 신학(영문판) (The Shadow of the Eternal Marriage)

부부 신학(영문판) (The Shadow of the Eternal Marriage)

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How to Lead a Married Life?
어떻게 결혼생활을 할 것인가?
A Guide for Couples That Builds the Covenant Community and Envisions the Kingdom of God 언약 공동체의 기초, 하나님 나라를 꿈꾸게 하는 부부 지침서
★ This book explores the interactions between husbands and wives within a covenantal framework, addressing the holy affection of marriage, relational attitudes, and practical aspects of married life. The author emphasizes that one's spiritual condition can be revealed through their attitude toward their spouse-a realization sparked by his wife's battle with cancer. Having grown up in a dysfunctional family, this awakening led to profound change in his own marriage. Rooted in theological interpretation and practical application, this book serves as a sequel to A Theology of Dating.
★ It delves into not only the world of marriage and relationships but also counseling cases related to marital conflicts, biblical perspectives on divorce and remarriage, and Christian ethical views on child-rearing. It invites couples to explore the deeper meaning of their union as a community. Marriage, the union of husband and wife, is ultimately a reflection of the great mystery of Christ and the Church. This theme is illustrated through passages such as Genesis 2:24, which is quoted and explained by the apostle Paul in Ephesians 5:31-32. Each chapter includes questions for sharing and application.

★ 언약으로 세워지는 부부, 남편과 아내의 상호작용을 다루는 이 책은 결혼의 거룩한 정서, 부부 관계와 태도에 이르기까지 결혼생활의 실제를 다룬다. 영적 상태를 진단하는 시금석은 배우자를 대하는 태도에 있다는 저자의 선언에 주목하게 하는데, 이는 역기능 가정에서 성장한 저자에게 아내의 암 투병이 찾아오면서 시작된 각성이자 변화였다. 신학적 해석을 기초로 하고 부부 생활 적용에 중심을 둔 『연애 신학』 후속편이다.
★ 결혼생활과 부부의 세계뿐 아니라 부부 갈등의 상담 사례, 이혼 또는 재혼에 대한 성경적 시각, 자녀 양육으로 이어지는 기독교 윤리의 관점을 포함하고 있다. 아내와 남편의 부부 관계를 더 깊이 공동체 의미에 다가가게 한다. 남편과 아내의 결합인 결혼, 그 한 몸 됨의 큰 비밀이 궁극적으로 그리스도와 교회의 연합임을 알기 쉽게 안내하는 이 책의 주제 말씀은 창세기 2장 24절, 그리고 사도 바울이 이 구절을 인용하며 주석하는 에베소서 5장 31-32절이다. 각 챕터마다 나눔과 적용을 위한 질문이 수록되어 있다.
저자

권율

피에타스선교지원사역대표
1.1.1.1.1.1.1.RyulJonathanKwon:DirectorofPietasMissionsSupportMinistry
1.1.1.1.1.1.2.
1.1.1.1.1.1.3.TheauthorhascompletedtheDepartmentofEnglishLanguageandLiterature(B.A.)atKyungpookNationalUniversityandtheMasterofDivinity(M.Div.)atKoreaTheologicalSeminary.HehasexperienceworkingoncampusasastaffofSFC(StudentForChrist),andhefrequentlyservesyoungadultunionretreats,datingcourses,andpre-marriagecourses.
1.1.1.1.1.1.4.
1.1.1.1.1.1.5.Heisanauthordevotedtopreachingandwritingaboutlife’shardshipsandpains.Hewasbornintoanon-Christianfamilyandexperiencedhislife“reformed”withthegospelindifficultcircumstancessuchasdomesticviolenceandparentaldivorce.
1.1.1.1.1.1.6.HegrewupinadysfunctionalfamilybutwasrestoredbyGod’slove.Nowhedesirestoseethatloveoverflowinhismarriage.HislongingforthebiblicalpictureofmarriageeventuallyledtothepublicationofATheologyforMarriedCouples:TheShadowoftheEternalMarriage.
1.1.1.1.1.1.7.
1.1.1.1.1.1.8.CurrentlyservingasthechaplainatSaegyaeroHospitalinBusan,SouthKorea,andacooperativepastorofKeojePresbyterianChurch,helivesamissionarylifewithhisfamily.Hehasalsobeenworkingasalectureratseminariesinthemissionfields(Mongolia,Philippines)foreightyears.HeconstantlycommunicateswithreadersthroughhisblogandFacebook.Heisalsoworkingonwriting,presentlywithelevenbooksandfivetranslations.

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인생의고난과아픔을소재로설교와글쓰기에힘쓰는저자는,비신자가정에서태어나가정폭력및부모이혼등어려운환경에서복음으로인생이‘개혁’되는체험을했다.역기능가정에서성장했음에도하나님의사랑으로잘회복되어결혼생활도그사랑이흘러넘치기를소망하고있다.성경이말하는부부의모습을갈망하는저자의노력은결국『부부신학』의출간으로이어졌다.
저자는경북대학교영어영문학과(B.A.)와고려목회학석사(M.Div.)를마치고,대구경북지역SFC(학생신앙운동)간사를역임하였으며,현재부산세계로병원원목으로재직하면서거제교회기관목사로도섬기고있다.매년선교지몽골과필리핀의신학교를방문하여교수사역을지원하고있으며,평소블로그와페이스북을통해끊임없이소통하고있다.
저서『부부신학』『연애신학』『전능자의손길』외8권이있고,역서『원문을그대로번역한웨스트민스터소교리문답』외4권이있다.

목차

Foreword 5
Prologue 11
Chapter1.BecomingaTrueCouple 15
AWorkaholicHusband
“YouknowIStillLoveYou,Right?”
LovingGod&LovingSpouse
TheTouchstonetoDiagnoseSpiritualState
ApplywiththeFearofGod
TheyHaveBecome,ButNeedtoBecome
ATrianglewithGodastheApex
●QuestionsforSharingandApplication

Chapter2.ACouple’sLoveCanChange 37
DoesaCouple’sLoveNeverChange?
WhatIstheWilltoLoveBetweenaCouple?
BecauseoftheCovenant,NottheLoveoftheCouple
DoesMarriageChangeaMan?
MarriageChangesaWomanToo!
●QuestionsforSharingandApplication

Chapter3.Leave,Unite,andBecomeOne 53
ThreeElementsofCovenantMarriage
WhenaManWon’tLeaveHisParents
FilialPietyRequiresaGoodMarriage
WhenaManDoesNotUnitewithHisWife
WhenaCoupleDoesn’tBecomeOneFlesh
ChurchWomenTamedbyAsceticism
God-Given,BeautifulSexualDesire
SexualDesireandLustAreDifferent!
SexualDesireandCovenant
LustIsIdolatry
ExperienceHolyAffection
●QuestionsforSharingandApplication

Chapter4.UpgradingMaritalLove 97
HowtoOvercomeChristianBoredom
DefiningtheConceptofOvercomingBoredom
DistinguishingAffectionfromEmotion
HolyAffectionandtheEmotionofLove
LoveonAnotherLevel
●QuestionsforSharingandApplication

Chapter5.ACoupleLovesandDreamsTogether 129
ACoupleDreamingoftheKingdomofGod
ACoupleonaMissionArmedwithLove
WhatIsaCouple’sMissionTogether?
PreciousBecauseYouAreNotPermanent
TheMysticalUnionofChristandtheChurch
FirstLoveandLastLove
●QuestionsforSharingandApplication

Chapter6.EnjoyaHappyMarriage 165
MaritalSextoRenewtheCovenant
Kissing,aSublimeActofHomage
TheJoyofSatisfyingYourSpouse
ACoupleBearingtheImageofGod
AMutuallySubmissiveCouple
StartingPointforYourChild’sEducation
●QuestionsforSharingandApplication

Chapter7.Real-LifeSituationswithBickering 191
FerventinFaithbutOftenFight
FailureEvenWhenFaithIsFervent
AVeryWiseHusband
ManCaveTime
ACoupleNavigatingMenopauseWisely
Men’sLanguagevs.Women’slanguage
NeedforRecognition,aSenseofEmpathy
AbilitytoFightandReconcileWisely
TearsShedwhileLookingintotheFace
AWifePuttingNoHopeinHerHusband
GodAloneIsNotEnough
●QuestionsforSharingandApplication

Chapter8.Divorce,Remarriage,andReality 225
ABoyGrowingUpinaDivorcedFamily
TheBizarreWorldofDivorceToday
ABiblicalGroundforDivorce#1:AdulteryofaSpouse
ABiblicalGroundforDivorce#2:RefusalofanUnbelievingSpouse
UnstatedGroundsforDivorce
TheCasesinWhichYouCanRemarry
RealisticProblemsofRemarriage
RemarriageIsNotAlwaysaGoodThing
OneDayWeWillBeAlone
●QuestionsforSharingandApplication
Epilogue 259
Bibliography 261

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프롤로그04  아내의추천사11추천사14  Chapter1--참된부부로거듭나기21  일중독남편|그래도하나님사랑하는거아시죠?|하나님사랑&배우자사랑|영적상태를진단하는시금석|하나님을경외하며적용하기|부부지만부부가되어가야|하나님을정점으로하는삼각관계-나눔과적용을위한질문42Chapter2--변할수있는부부의사랑44  부부의사랑이변하지않는다?|부부사이에사랑의의지란?|부부의사랑이아니라언약이다|결혼하면남자는변한다?|결혼하면여자가변한다!-나눔과적용을위한질문60Chapter3--떠남과연합과한몸됨61언약결혼의3요소|남자가부모를떠나지않을때|부부사이가좋아야효도한다|남자가아내와연합하지않을때|부부가한몸됨을누리지않을때|금욕주의에길들여진여성들|하나님이선물하신아름다운성욕|성욕과음욕은다르다!|성욕과언약|음욕은곧우상숭배-나눔과적용을위한질문104Chapter4--부부의사랑업그레이드하기105권태기극복방법|권태기극복개념정립하기|정서와감정구별하기|거룩한정서와사랑의감정|차원이다른사랑의감정-나눔과적용을위한질문135Chapter5--사랑하며함께꿈꾸는부부137하나님나라를꿈꾸는부부|사랑으로무장하는사명자커플|부부가함께이루어가는사명이란?|영원하지않기에소중한당신|그리스도와교회의신비적연합|첫사랑이자마지막사랑-나눔과적용을위한질문170Chapter6--행복한부부관계누리기171언약을갱신하는부부성생활|키스,경의를표하는숭고한행위|배우자를만족시키는기쁨|하나님의형상을담아내는부부|주안에서서로복종하는부부|자녀교육의출발점-나눔과적용을위한질문196Chapter7--티격태격실제상황들197신앙이뜨거운데자주싸우는부부|신앙이뜨거워도실패할수있다|정말지혜로운남편|남자들의‘동굴타임’|갱년기를지혜롭게극복하는부부|남자들의언어vs.여자들의언어|인정욕구와공감능력|지혜롭게싸우고화해하는능력|얼굴을바라보며흘리는눈물|남편에게소망을두지않는아내|하나님만으로는채워지지않는다-나눔과적용을위한질문230Chapter8--이혼과재혼,그리고현실231이혼가정에서성장한아이|기상천외한오늘날의이혼|성경이허용하는이혼사유〈1〉:배우자의간음|성경이허용하는이혼사유〈2〉:배우자의거부|명시적이지않은이혼사유들|어떤경우에재혼할수있는가|재혼에대한현실적인문제들|재혼이능사는아니다|언젠가우리는혼자남게된다-나눔과적용을위한질문에필로그264참고문헌266

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LetUsPutOurHopeIntheLordAlone!
Ihopethateverymarriedcoupleintheworldwillreadthisbookandrestoretheirrelationshipasbeautifullyaswedid.Especiallywives,letusnolongerputourhopeinourhusbands,butonlyintheLord,andwiththatdetermination,youwillfindyourhusbandaslovingasIdid.(MiAeSon,theauthor’swife)

우리의소망을오직주님께두자!
한국교회의모든부부들이이책을읽고우리처럼부부관계를아름답게회복하면좋겠다.특히아내들이여,더이상남편에게소망을두지말고오직주님을바라보자.그런결심을하고나면신기하게도남편이사랑스러워보이게될것이다.(손미애,저자의아내)