경청 없는 마인드맵 상담

경청 없는 마인드맵 상담

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마인드맵 상담은 게임처럼 떠오르는 생각 조각들을 툭툭 던져놓는 과정에서 무의식의 문을 여는 열쇠가 됩니다. 흩어진 감정과 기억의 파편들이 스스로 연결되며 의미 있는 별자리(스토리)를 이루는 마법을 경험하게 될 것입니다. 고통을 밖으로 꺼내 객관화하는 순간(외현화, 外現化), 당신은 더 이상 고통의 피해자가 아닌, 자신의 삶에 의미를 부여하는 ‘자기서사의 저자(Author)’로 다시 태어납니다.
이 책은 정답 대신, 평생 자신의 마음을 돌볼 ‘생각하는 힘’을 길러줄 단 한 장의 지도를 선사하고자 합니다. 저의 오랜 경험과 통찰이 녹아든 이 방법론이 길 잃은 마음 곁을 지키는 상담사분들께 실용적인 도움이 되기를, 나아가 그 철학적 의미까지 함께 탐색하는 계기가 되기를 바랍니다.
저자

김민수

법명묘광(妙光)

ㆍ경남진해출생 
ㆍ문학박사(수료) 
ㆍ창원대,경남대등강사역임 
ㆍ교사명예퇴임 
ㆍ시인:시집2권출간 
ㆍ가피제일표준관세음보살보문품출간 
ㆍ현재본주(本主)전기연구중

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여는말/3

제1부새로운상담의길

제1장왜‘경청없는상담’인가?····································································13
1-1.서론:경청이라는성소(聖所)의빛과그림자············································13
1-2.진술의고통:언어의감옥에갇힌내담자················································15
1-3.상담사의심연(深淵):공감의대가와‘감정감염’······································16
1-4.대안의제시:‘보여주기’로의패러다임전환·············································18

제2장마인드맵상담의이해··········································································21
2-1.토니부잔의‘사고력지도’·····································································21
2-2.저자의관점:‘말하기’의한계와‘보여주기’로의전환·································27
2-3.“심리지도”의탄생:기억과감정의시각화···············································29
2-4.의미의발견:NLP유목화와‘생각하는힘’··············································30

제2부“심리지도”완성하기

제3장마인드맵상담의실제(상)····································································35
3-1.준비단계:라포르를대체하는도구·························································35
3-2.1단계:브레인스토밍-내면의재료꺼내기···············································48
3-3.2단계:그룹화-의미의별자리································································65
3-4.2차그룹화-핵심서사의발견······························································94

제3부자기이야기구조의재구성

제4장마인드맵상담의실제(하)···································································107
4-1.3단계:그룹의상세화하기····································································107
4-2.4단계:재창조;새로운지도그리기·······················································114
4-3.마지막단계:솔루션맵의완성,문제의확정과해법의발견·····················122

제4부성장과확장

제5장성장과확장-상담을넘어평생의도구로···········································133
5-1.내담자의성장:‘자기문제의전문가’가되다··········································133
5-2.셀프상담:스스로의등대가되다··························································135
5-3.연대기적기법:인생전체를조망하는지혜············································142
5-4.궁극의치유,글쓰기:자기서사(핵심이야기구조)의저자가되다··············148

제6장결론-경청을넘어진정한공감으로···················································151
6-1.필연적대안:왜경청을넘어서야하는가?··············································151
6-2.객관적공감:‘보여주기’는어떻게더깊은연결을만드는가?····················153
6-3.내담자의변혁:자기서사(핵심이야기구조)의저자가되다·······················154

마치며
자기서사(핵심이야기구조)의저자를위한안내·············································159
1.평생의나침반,마음설계········································································159
2.새로운지평을향하여··············································································161

부록·········································································································163
부록1.[저자의실천]집필구상마인드맵:사유의시각화과정·······················163
부록2.[이론적도해]상담기법의논리적구조·············································171
부록3.[실전사례1]워밍업:즐거운상상····················································175
부록4.[실전사례2]심층치유:아버지와트라우마······································178
부록5.[실전사례3]인생통합:자서전과성장의기록··································182
부록6.[상담사가이드]전문가를위한내비게이션·········································192
부록7.[내담자가이드]혼자서도할수있는셀프워크북·······························195

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